I have a 4 year old daughter who is usually sickly. The dad and I separated a year ago..but he keeps lying he doesnt have a job i even gave him time of the whole year to be stable but even after that one year the story is the same. I have a chronic disease and i am on serious medical treatment therefore i cant manage evrything alone, my daughter needs to go to school but he doesnt want to do that. I am ready we share responsibilities 50 50. I have never asked fr it when i was healthy and working but now situation is such that i have no option.